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Sex Role Identity and Jealousy
as Correlates of Abusive Behavior
in Lesbian Relationships
Grace A. Telesco
SUMMARY
This article presents the findings of a
study from a crosssectional sample of 105 lesbians taken from a nonclinical
setting to investigate to what extent they exhibited abusive behavior
toward an intimate female partner and whether the abuse was physical,
psychological, or both. This study examined whether an association
exists between a lesbian's sex role identity, particularly the dimension
of femininity, and her abusive behavior. The hypothesis that jealousy
in the relationship would be positively associated with reported
incidences of abusive behavior was also examined. The results show
that when abuse is broadly defined a sizable minority report high
incidences of overall, abuse and psychological abuse at some time
during their current relationship. The most salient finding of this
study was the strong evidence of a relationship between jealousy
and abusive behavior. The implications of these findings underscore
the need for continued and enhanced delivery of services. Other implications
of this study point toward consciousnessraising to the larger community
about institutionalized and individual homophobia and heterosexism.
INTRODUCTION
Over the past few decades, there has been a great amount of research
and literature written on the subject of heterosexual partner abuse.
There is much known about the incidence, prevalence, and severity
of heterosexual partner abuse. Theorists have looked at various correlates
and explanations for abusive behavior between heterosexual intimates,
focusing their attention on gender difference and looking at battering
using a male batterer paradigm.
This
study addresses existing gaps in the research on lesbian partner
abuse by looking through a multitheory lens and shifts the focus
from gender differences to explain abusive behavior to examining
sex role identity and relationship factors. This research investigates
specifically whether a lesbian's sex role identity is associated
with her abusive behavior toward an intimate female partner, focusing
on whether the dimensions of masculinity and femininity help explain
abusive behavior. Additionally, building on existing research
in the field of lesbian partner abuse, this study examines to what
extent the relationship factor of jealousy in lesbian relationships
is related to abusive behavior. Variables of dependency and power
in the relationship were also examined.
REVIEW OF THE LITERATURE
Although the research on heterosexual abuse serves to inform theoretical
explanations for lesbian partner abuse, the issues surrounding gender
difference are not applicable for lesbian intimates. While there
is a wealth of research and theoretical models to choose from when
investigating heterosexual partner abuse, the lack of research and
scarcity of the literature as it relates to lesbian partner abuse
is glaring. It is clear that the research on the heterosexual population
has been me( with fewer challenges than it has for the hidden and
underrecognized lesbian population, and as a result of the deficit
in the research, practitioners have relied largely on a heterosexual
paradigm to understand lesbian partner abuse.
There are currently no national probability studies to research
the incideuce, prevalence, and severity of lesbian pariner abuse.
Hornophobia and heterosexism continue to keep lesbians a hidden subpopulation
within society and make generalizations of the findings of nonprobability
studies conducted with lesbians limiting.
Lesbian,
gay, transgender, and bisexual people face verbal and physical
assault on the street, face termination from their employment,
losing custody of their children, abandonment by their families,
and suicide all resulting from rcactions to their sexual orientation
(Greene, 1994). Moreover, the institutions that serve to protect
people at large have often been the very source of oppression and
discrimination for lesbian, gay, transgender, and bisexual people
(Holmes & Hodge,
1997).
Mainstream
religious institutions are often at odds with lesbian, gay, bisexual,
and transgender people in the spirit of morality and religiosity,
promoting heterosexuality as normative (Holmes & Hodge,
1997). Policies and practices of the courts and the criminal justice
system suggest a failure to protect the rights of the lesbian, gay,
transgender, and bisexual communities. Allen and Leventhal (1999)
examined domestic violence laws in fifty states and concluded that
in some states lesbian and gay victims of partner abuse were afforded
no protection under the law and in most states were more likely to
receive less protection when compared to heterosexual victims. Legislation
has also been negligent in failing to protect the civil rights of
lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender people, particularly in the
absence of laws that prohibit discrimination on the basis of sexual
orientation (Greene, 1994).
Despite
the progressive mentality of the American Psychiatric Association
removing "homosexuality" from the Diagnostic and Statistical
Manual of Mental Disorders in 1973 and "ego dystonic homosexuality" in
1988, efforts to change lesbian and gay clients through conversion
therapy continue to persist for some (Greene, 1994). Medical, mental
health, domestic violence advocates, and social work professionals
often make assumptions that all people are heterosexual (Berkman & Zinberg,
1997; Greene, 1994; Hammond, 1986; Holmes & Hodge, 1997). Because
of homophobia and heterosexism, lesbian, gay, transgender, and bisexual
people struggle to attain a positive selfidentity and often endure
lifelong negative selfimages, fear, shame, embarrassment, and isolation
because of their sexual identity. Some research indicates that lesbian,
gay, transgender, and bisexual youth are three times more likely
than their heterosexual counterparts'to attempt suicide (Hunter & Schaecher,
1995).
Homophobia
magnifies the effects of partner abuse. A lesbian, who is a victim
of this abuse, may he reluctant to seek help from the police
or service providers fearing a homophobic reaction. Anecdotal
evidence from service providers suggests that many lesbians deliberately
change pronouns when reporting partner abuse, in order to safeguard
themselves from homophobie reactions from law enforcement officials.
Others may also hide the reality of abuse from their family because
they may not be open about their sexuality. Even the openly lesbian
victim may not want family or friends to know about the abuse
for fear that her sexuality will be perceived as the justification
for the abuse. This internalized homophobia may be one of the
many reasons wily victims of lesbian partner abuse remain hidden
(Elliott, 1996; Lie & Gentlewarrier,
199 1; Pharr, 1988; Renzetti, 1992).
In the late eighties, some theorists offered explanations for the
lack of data on lesbian partner abuse. Morrow and Hawxhurst (1989)
posited that the lesbian community's reluctance to acknowledge that
partner abuse is a real problem for them might lie in the notion
that lesbian relationships are egalitarian, loving, and not violent.
Additionally, the reluctance to acknowledge lesbian partner abuse
may stem from the fear that lesbianism will be seen as pathological.
Lesbian
survivors may be reluctant to admit abuse in their relationship,
mirroring the same dynamics of selfblame, fear, economic and emotional
dependency, and low self esteem that are experienced by heterosexual
women who are survivors of partner abuse (Hammond, 1986). Further,
the data on lesbian partner abuse from official sources are limited.
Police, hospital, and crisis hotline reporting may not accurately
reflect the incidence and severity of lesbian partner abuse and
may be minimized by crisis workers, perhaps due to their own homophobia.
Therefore, same sex partner abuse is often left out of police statistics
and is consequently not counted in criminal justice reports (Hart,
1986; Island & Letellier, 1991).
There
has been a considerable increase in the research of lesbian partner
abuse within the last few decades. Findings for these studies suggest
that rates and severity of violence among lesbian partners is comparable
to that of heterosexual partners (Brand & Kidd,
1986; Coleman, 1990; Elliot, 1996; Lie & Gentlewarrier, 199 1;
Lockhart, White, Causby, & Isaac, 1994; Renzetti, 1992).
With
the increase in the research, there has been a substantial growth
in the amount of literature pointing to several explanations for
lesbian partner abuse. Some of these explanations include power
imbalance, dependency and autonomy, jealousy, substance abuse,
and intergenerational violence (Caldwell & Peplau, 1984; Coleman,
1990; Lynch & Reilly, 1986; Peplau, Rook, & Padesky, 1978;
Peplau, Padesky, & Hamilton, 1982; Reilly & Lynch, 1990;
Renzetti, 1992).
The
existing research has limitations. The studies investigating lesbian
partner abuse have almost exclusively used convenience samples
that are comprised of lesbians who are mostly white, middle class,
and feminist (Lie & Gentlewarrier, 1991; Lockhart et al., 1994;
Schilit, Lie, Bush, Montagne, & Reyes, 199 1). While some of
this research has focused on client populations of survivors, examining
abusive behavior through the eyes of the victim (Lobel, 1986; Renzetti,
1988), other studies have been conducted with client populations
of batterers participating in intervention programs (Farley, 1996).
The findings from these studies make generalizations to the general
lesbian population difficult and limit inferences. Another issue
threatening the gcneralizability of these studies to the larger lesbian
population lies within the methodologies used. Some of these studies
rely on retrospective accounts of the abuse from the victim. The
limited number of studies on lesbian partner abuse that utilize selfreport
methods in a nonclinical setting make it difficult to obtain an accurate
estimate of lesbian partner abuse among the general lesbian population.
In
intimate heterosexual relationships where violence is occurring,
the primary aggressors are typically men, and the victims are women.
Feminist theorists posit that it is patriarchal domination and
the control of women that contributes to partner abuse, specifically
among heterosexual intimates (Bograd, 1988; Dobash & Dobash,
1979, 1998).
Dobash
and Dobash (1979, 1998) dominate the literature in this feminist
argument and sociocultural framework, suggesting that societal
belief systems sustain partner abuse at the individual level. They
suggest the factors that contribute to partner abuse are embedded
in patriarchal privilege and male entitlement and further posit
that the sense of entitlement that a husband believes he possesses
to punish "his" wife,
lies in the very position of husbandry, allowing men to be abusive
simply because of their rank in the relationship.
Some
feminist theorists suggest that men are inclined to be more abusive
than women because this abuse is embedded in an accumulated web
of physical strength and male tradition describing masculinity
in terms of aggression, power, and a predatory spirit. These theorists
suggest that when "masculinity" is threatened, acts of
aggression may follow (Thompson, 1998). In the Violent Men Study
of 1996, the data reported by Dobash and Dobash (1998) suggest that
when men recounted their physical abuse against a female intimate
partner, it was usually accompanied by anger and rationalization.
The evidence of masculine identity associated with the abusive behavior
was indicated through statements made by the batterer which suggested
a strong belief system that the batterer was forced to "put
the victim in her place," "show her who the boss was," and "could
not let a 'woman' get away with anything" (Dobash & Dobash,
1998, 0. 144).
Thompson (1998) argues that femininity in this society is viewed
as weak and Nubordinate. Thompson adds:
The
boy who is called a fag is the target of other boys' homophobia
as well as the victim of his own homophobia. While the overt message
is the absolute need to avoid being fernininized, the implication
is that femalesand all that they traditionally representare contemptible.
The United States Marines have a philosophy, which conveniently combines
homophobia and misogyny in the belief that "when you want to
create a group of male killers, you kill the 'woman' in them." (p.
561)
The
paradigm of patriarchy, which is male created and driven, is one
of domination and control where the feminine is viewed as subordinate
(Dobash & Dobash,
1998). Regardless of one's biological gender or sexual orientation,
these messages can become internalized and inform behavior, particularly
in a patriarchal setting where the feminine is not valued and is
seen as inferior. Coleman (1996) posits that we exist within a
heterosexist system where the relationship model is comprised of
two roles: one being dominant and the other submissive. Therefore,
lesbians are not immune to the potential for one partner to dominate
the other.
Traditional
stereotypes of masculinity and femininity can be limiting, gender
based, and viewed in terms of dress, roles, and personality attributes
(Bern, 1993). Further, as these traditional stereotypes of masculinity
and femininity are limiting, so is the construct of gender. Lesbian
partner abuse should not be framed exclusively in terms of gender
because of the unique differences in the dynamics of lesbian
relationships and the fact that the partners are the same sex.
Coleman ( 1996) also argues that regardless of gender or sex.
role identity, patriarchal values are internalized and may play a
role in abusive behavior. Since biological gender difference between
lesbian partners does not serve as an explanation for abusive behavior,
a closer examination of a lesbian's level of masculinity and femininity
may help to explain the incidence and severity of abuse in their
relationships. Further, building on existing research, this study
examines to what extent the relationship factor of jealousy is related
to abusive behavior among lesbian intimates. Relationship factors
of dependency and power were also examined.
METHODS
This descriptive study makes use of a crosssectional survey of a
convenience sample of 105 lesbians. In order to participate, respondents
had to self identify as lesbians and be in a relationship with another
woman for at least six months at the time of the study.
Four
questions guide the research: (1) To what extent does partner
abuse exist among lesbian intimates? (2) What is the nature of this
abusive behavior (physical or psychological abuse)? (3) Is there
an association between sex role identity and abusive behavior? (4)
To what extent is the relationship factor of jealousy related to
abusive behavior in lesbian relationships? It was expected that low
levels of femininity would be positively associated with high
rates of abusive behavior. The relationship of dependency, jealousy,
and power imbalance with abusive behavior was also of interest, and
it was expected that high levels of dependency, jealousy, and power
imbalance in the relationship would be positively associated with
higher rates of abusive behavior.
Measures
The
self-administered multi-item questionnaire contained 125 questions
and asked participants to rate themselves on their perceived level
of masculinity and femininity, as well as the level of dependency,
jealousy, and power imbalance present in their current relationship.
Respondents were also asked to report on whether they have been
physically or psychologically abusive toward an intimate partner
at any time during their current relationship. Sex role identity
was measured utilizing the Bem Sex Role Inventory Scale (BSRI).
The BSRI measures 60 different personality attributes related to
constructs of masculinity and femininity (13=, 1974). The masculine
items describe traits and characteristics that are considered socially
agreed upon, although stereotypical, "masculine" attributes that are related
to problem solving, assertiveness, and leadership. Respondents are
asked to rate themselves on twenty masculine attributes from "never
or almost never true" to "always or almost always true" on
statements like "I act as leader," "I am assertive," and "I
am ambitious." The feminine items describe traits and characteristics
that arc considered socially agreed upon, although stereotypical, "feminine" attributes
that are related to concern for the well being of others and nurturing.
Respondents are asked to rate themselves on twenty feminine attributes
from "never or almost never true" to 16 always or almost
always true" on statements like: " I soothe hurt feelings
... .. lam sensitive to the needs of others," and "I am
sympathetic." Twenty questions are fillers and are not counted.
Raw scores were totaled for masculinity and femininity separately
so that each respondent receives a separate masculine and feminine
score. The BSRI for this sample showed an alpha coefficient of .73
for masculinity and.77 for femininity.
Participants
were also asked to report whether they have been physically or
psychologically abusive at any time toward their current partner
at any time during their current relationship. The 30 item Abusive
Behavior Inventory was used to measure the construct of abusive
behavior (Shepard & Campbell, 1992). Respondents were asked how often
they exhibited each of the 30 physical or psychological abusive behaviors
from "never" to "very frequently." Some items
included "called her names or criticized her," "slapped,
hit, or punched her ... .. put her down ... .. choked or strangled
her," and "drove recklessly when she was in the car." Raw
scores were totaled for physical abuse,
psychological abuse and overall abuse. Respondents with raw scores
in the top twentyfive percentile were categorized as "high abuse" for
cross tabulation and categorical purposes. The sample was then categorized
into high and low abuse for descriptive purposes. Continuous raw
scores were used for correlation and hierarchical regression analysis.
Reliability analysis for the ABI indicated an alpha coefficient of
.74.
A
series of questions about the participants' relationship as it
relates to issues of dependency, jealousy, and power imbalance
were asked utilizing a combination of items from Renzetti's (1992)
research and original items designed for this study. Respondents
were asked to rate their behavior from 46 never" to "very frequently" on
characteristics of jealousy, dependency, and power in their relationship.
Some jealousy items included I don't like it when my partner spends
time with her friends," and " I don't like it when my partner
pays attention to other things and not me." Reliability analysis
indicated alpha coefficients of .75 for the dependency items, .71
for the jealousy items, and .73 for the power imbalance items.
SAMPLE
Study
participants were volunteers who frequent the New York City Lesbian,
Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender Community Center for social events.
Although a nonprobability sampling strategy, this type of "location" sampiing,
sometimes referred to as "target" sampling, is often used
when studying hidden populations who lack a sampling frame (Watters & Biernacki,
1989). This sample consisted of individual responses from participants
in regards to their own behavior and was not a sample of paired couples.
African American lesbians accounted for 22% of the sample, and I
I% of the sample identified themselves as Latino. Similar studies
investigating abusive behavior among lesbian intimates has primarily
been focused on white, middle class, feminist, lesbians, and has
largely ignored the experience of lesbians of color.
The
mean age of the respondents was 40 years old with ages ranging
from 21 to 66 years. Twenty percent of the sample's income fell within
the $ 10,000 to $35,000 income category and 26% of the respondents
fell within the $35,000 to $50,000 income category. Eightyfive percent
of the respondents said that they were employed and categorized their
work in terms of a wide range of whitecollar occupations. Twenty-eight
percent of the respondents held at least a bachelor's degree.
The
mean number of years respondents reported being in their current
relationship was an average of 5 years with 84% categorizing the
relationship as a committed one. Ninety-seven percent described their
relationship as mollogamous and 55% reported that they reside
with their partner.
Respondents were also asked to report on their partner's demographic
characteristics. The same information requested from them was asked
about their partners. Results indicated no differences between respondents
and partners on demographic variables, as provided by the respondent.
RESULTS
Physical and Psychological Abuse
The
results show 34% of the sample categorized as "high" levels
of overall abuse. These raw scores of overall abuse were placed in
the top twenty-five percentile and represent both physical and psychological
abuse. On psychological abuse, 34% were categorized as exhibiting "high" levels
of abuse, with 66% reporting "low" levels of abuse. Thirty-seven
percent of the sample is categorizcd as "high" on physical
abuse with 63% as low. It is important to note that although 34%
of the sample reported high rates of abuse, these specific abuse
items fell within a lower range ofseverity and would not have incurred
serious physical or psychological injury. The classifications of
high and low abuse percentages are presented in Table 1.
Seventy-five
percent of the sample admits to demonstrating more than one incident
of overall abusive behavior toward their current partner, As
Table 2 indicates, eight percent of the sample report never abusing
a current partner ill any way, and 17% admit to exhibiting one abusive
act toward their current partner at some time during the relationship.
The physical abuse items and the percent of the sample who reported
never, occasionally, frequently, or very frequently exhibiting these
abusive behaviors toward their current partner within the last year
are presented in Table 3. The top items are ranked in the order of
those that were most reported by the respondents. Twenty percent
of the respondents admitted to occasionally throwing or smashing
something or bitting their partner. Twenty percent also admitted
to occasionally pushing her.
The
six most reported psychologically abusive acts that respondents
admitted to either occasionally or frequently / very frequently exhibiting
toward their partner were: gave partner angry looks or stares (71
%), called partner names or criticized her (55%), ended a discussion
with partner and made the decision yourself (50%), accused partner
of paying too much attention to others (4 1 %), put partner down
(36%), and kept partner from doing what she wanted (21 %).
TABLE 1.
Sample Percentages Based on Top 25% for Levels of Overall
Abuse, Psychological
Abuse, and Physical Abuse (N = 105)
| Variable |
Low |
High |
| Overall Abuse
|
66% |
34% |
| Psychological
Abuse |
66% |
34% |
| Physical Abuse |
63% |
37% |
TABLE 2. Sample Percentages of Overall Abuse (N = 88*)
| Category |
n |
Percent |
| Never Abusive |
7 |
8% |
| 1 Incident of
Abuse |
15 |
17% |
| More Than 1 Incident
of Abuse |
66 |
75% |
| |
88 |
100% |
*
Missing
data
TABLE 3. Rank Order of Sample Percentages for Individual Physical
Abuse
Items (N = 105)
| Abuse Item |
Never |
Occasionally |
Frequently/Very
Frequently |
| Threw / hit /
smashed something |
78% |
20% |
2% |
| Pushed her |
79% |
20% |
1% |
| Drove recklessly
with her In car |
85% |
15% |
|
| Slapped, hit,
or punched her |
92% |
8% |
|
Pressured her to have sex |
95% |
3% |
2% |
| Throw her around |
96% |
4% |
|
| Attacked sexual
parts of her body |
98% |
2% |
|
Femininity
and Abusive Behavior
To
test whether a respondent's low level of femininity would be
positively associated with abusive behavior, correlation analysis
was conducted. It was expected
that the characteristic of femininity contains dimensions that
are concerncd with the well being of others and thought to contribute
to nonabusive behavior. In contrast, individuals who possess low
levels of these characteristics may be more likely to demonstrate
abusive behavior.
Correlation analysis results are presented in Tables 4 and 5. The
findings indicate that femininity is neither positively nor negatively
correlated with overall abuse. It was expected that low femininity
would be positively associated with abusive behavior. This was not
supported by the data. It is difficult to determine why low levels
of femininity were not related with high rates of abuse as predicted.
Perhaps respondents perceived themselves as having high levels of
both masculine and feminine attributes, when in fact they may really
possess lower levels of both masculinity and femininity. There may
be a difference between the perception one has of the attributes
they possess and the reality of their behavior.
Jealousy
and Abusive Behavior
To test the hypothesis that jealousy is associated with abusive
behavior, correlation analysis was conducted, utilizing a listwise
deletion of data with a twotailed test of significance and are also
presented in Tables 4 and 5.
Correlation
analysis shows that jealousy and overall abuse were positively
correlated and significant (r = .37, p < .01). As jealousy
increased so did reported abusive behavior. Jealousy and psychological
abuse were also positively correlated and significant (r = .36, p < .01).
Neither masculinity nor femininity was correlated with abuse.
Jealousy as a Predictor of Abuse
To examine predictors of abuse, three hierarchical regression models
were conducted using continuous scores for all variables. Utilizing
twotailed significance, with a listwise deletion of missing data,
the independent variables of dependency, jealousy, power imbalance,
masculinity, and femininity were entered into the first regression
model to determine how much of the variance in abuse is explained
by these variables.
Tables
6 and 7 summarize the results of the regression models and are
presented in this section. As a group, the variables of dependency,
jealousy, power imbalance, masculinity, and femininity significantly
explain 18% of the variance in overall abuse (R'=. 18, p <.05),
andjealousy was the strongest predictor when all the other variables
were held constant (t = 3,26, p < .0 1).
The
results of the second regression model, entering psychological
abuse as the dependent variable indicate that as a group, the variables
of dependency, jealousy,
power imbalance, masculinity, and femininity significantly explain
17% of the variance in psychological abuse (R2 =
.17, p < .05).
Jealousy was the strongest predictor of psychological abuse when
all the other variables were held constant (t = 3.189, p < .0
1).
TABLE 4. BiVariate Correlations Between Masculinity, Femininity,
Dependency, Jealousy, Power Imbalance, and Overall Abuse
| |
1 |
2 |
3 |
4 |
5 |
6 |
| I Masculinity |
|
|
|
|
|
|
| 2 Femininity |
-.07 |
|
|
|
|
|
| 3 Dependency |
-.02 |
.23* |
|
|
|
|
| 4 Jealousy |
-.12 |
.20* |
.07 |
|
|
|
| 5 Power Imbalance |
.13 |
.26* |
.32** |
.12 |
|
|
| 6 Overall Abuse |
.15 |
-.01 |
.17 |
.37** |
.12 |
|
Note:
*p <.05 **p <.01
TABLE 5. BiVariate Correlations Between Masculinity, Femininity,
Dependency, Jealousy, Power Imbalance, and Psychological Abuse (n
= 88*)
| |
1 |
2 |
3 |
4 |
5 |
6 |
| I Masculinity |
|
|
|
|
|
|
| 2 Femininity |
-.07 |
|
|
|
|
|
| 3 Dependency |
-.02* |
.23* |
|
|
|
|
| 4 Jealousy |
-.12 |
.20* |
.07 |
|
|
|
| 5 Power Imbalance |
.13 |
.26* |
.32** |
.12 |
|
|
| 6 Overall Abuse |
.12 |
-.07 |
.17 |
.36** |
.06 |
|
Note:
*p <.05 **p <.01
DISCUSSION
It was expected that a respondent's femininity would be negatively
associated with high rates of abusive behavior that she reported
exhibiting toward her partner. The results indicated that femininity
was neither positively nor negatively correlated with overall physical
and psychological abuse, Although not part of the hypotheses testing,
femininity was weakly associated with dependency, jealousy, and power
imbalance.
TABLE 6. Multiple Regression Analysis for Variables Predicting Overall
Abuse
| Variable |
SEB |
B |
| Dependency |
.10 |
.12 |
| Jealousy |
.37 |
1.20** |
| Power Imbalance |
.23 |
.18 |
| Masculinity |
.42 |
.71 |
| Femininity |
.64 |
-.64 |
Note:
For Jealousy, F (6, 73) =.013% R2 =.18, **p <.01
TABLE 7. Multiple Regression Analysis for Variables Predicting Psychological
Abuse
| Variable |
SEB |
B |
| Dependency |
.08 |
.12 |
| Jealousy |
.31 |
.98** |
| Power Imbalance |
.19 |
.06 |
| Masculinity |
.35 |
.52 |
| Femininity |
.52 |
-.82 |
Note:
For Jealousy, F (5, 73) = .016*, R2 = .17, **p < .01
As a group, the variables of dependency, jealousy, power imbalance,
masculinity, and femininity significantly explain 18% of the variance
in overall abuse and 17% of the variance in psychological abuse.
The correlate of jealousy, in this sample, was the strongest predictor,
when all the other variables were held constant. While 18% of the
variance in physical and psychological abuse are explained by the
variables, there is a substantial percentage that is not explained
and requires further examination. Other variables for further examination
include lesbians exposed to violence in their family origin, substance
use and abuse, and prior abusive relationships.
Consistent with existing research, thirtyfour percent of the sample
was categorized as exhibiting high rates of physical and psychological
abuse toward a current intimate female partner. Thirtyseven percent
was classified as demonstrating high rates of physical abuse toward
their partner at some time during the relationship.
Despite
the finding that a sizable minority reported high rates of physical
and psychological abuse, it is important to note that the. psychological
abuse items that were most reported may not be considered "serious" psychological
terror and the physical abuse items most reported would not have
required hospitalization.
LIMITATIONS
It is unclear whether respondents were forthcoming about their abuse
and whether the instrument used accurately measured the true level
of physical and psychological abuse demonstrated by the respondent.
Straus (1990) acknowledges that batterers tend to underreport their
own abusive behavior. Additionally, the findings indicate that 15%
of the respondents failed to accurately complete the Abusive Behavior
Inventory portion of the questionnaire suggesting that higher rates
of abuse may have been indicated but were not reported. Further,
the selfreport nature of the research suggests that the actual abuse
occurring, both physically and psychologically, may be even higher.
The ability to generalize the findings of this present study is
limited by the location and nature of the sample; however, the findings
confirm prior research suggesting that the incidence of abuse among
lesbian intimates is similar to their heterosexual counterparts.
The examination of the extent to which violence in the family of
origin, substance use/abuse, and prior abusive relationships is related
to a lesbian's abusive behavior in a current relationship was not
explored in this research. These may account for the variance that
is not explained by the variables investigated in this study and
require further examination.
IMPLICATIONS FOR SOCIAL WORK
The present study indicates that not only was jealousy significantly
associated with abusive behavior, but it was the strongest predictor
of overall (both physical and psychological) and psychological abuse
by itself. This finding is consistent with the literature.
For lesbians, issues of attachment, autonorny, and monogamy may
serve to complicate jealous tendencies by either of the partners.
Further, jealousy among lesbian couples may also be explained by
a lack of institutional validation and legitimacy, resulting from
institutionalized heterosexism and homophobia.
The
results of this study underscore the need to recognize that abuse
occurs among lesbian couples and takes tile form of psychological
abuse as well as physical abuse. The findings also suggest thatjealousy
may be a strong predictor of abuse. The results of this study highlight
the commitment needed for the continued and enhanced delivery of services
to battered lesbians, expanded intervention programs for lesbian
batterers, and innovative prevention initiatives designed to
adequately address the issue of partner abuse in lesbian relationships.
Since
assessment is critical in the intervention of partner abuse (Morrow & Hawxhurst,
1989), service providers can benefit from continuing education
on how to effectively assess abusive behavior in lesbian relationships.
The implications for practice suggest that social workers who serve
lesbians and lesbian couples examine how issues of jealousy and
its manifestations may serve to create an environment of abuse,
Other implications point toward consciousnessraising to the larger
community about institutionalized and individual homophobia and heterosexism
and how they can serve to magnify the problem of partner abuse. Additionally,
homophobia and heterosexism present unique challenges in researching
this hidden population, making inferences from study results complex
and generalizations to the larger population of lesbians limiting.
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Stroudsburg University of Pennsylvania, Department of Sociology,
200 Prospect Street, East Stroudsburg, PA 18301.
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